Saturday, August 15, 2009

Update

Yesterday was my last day of my full-time job. The hours were just not compatible with 16 credit hours of college that starts a week from Monday. I'll most likely have a part-time job lined up in the next week or so. I've sent in my resume for several work-study jobs and for one awesome off-campus merchandising job. My friend, Debbie, works for American Greetings merchandising cards, but needed more hours. She is keeping one small store with them and taking my magazine job. I, on the other hand, need fewer hours so she put a good word in for me with her boss and I'm hoping to hear back from the boss soon. On-campus or off-campus, either way, it's all good.

I'm spending next week doing some visiting, school clothes shopping (for KJ), buying textbooks for us both, arranging transportation (we're sharing my car) and finding my classes.

School-wise, job-wise, friend-wise, KJ and I-wise...things are going well. Marriage-wise, however, things are not going well. David and I will be officially divorced in a couple of months. I can't get past my lack of trust in him so our relationship can't survive. To make matters worse, I recently found out that my lack of trust is well-founded. I won't go into details, but I spoke with both detectives with whom David had been chatting, received a call from the FBI, and had a long chat with his probation officer. I will no longer accept being lied to. David is very angry and feels betrayed that I am choosing to believe law enforcement over him. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers.

KJ and I are heading to my nephew's birthday party in Fort Worth tomorrow so I'll have pics for you.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry Rebel. I completely understand though. You have to do what's right for you and KJ. I will e-mail you later about some things.
Love you!
Jess

MOM #1 said...

You've been through so much already, I can't believe this story is "to be continued." It needs to be over all ready.

It sure seems like you're keeping yourself busy though.

If you head back this way, PLEASE drop me a line. We NEED to have lunch. I know it's my fault that we keep missing each other, I obviously don't get out much.

I'll be thinking about your whole family, the together pieces and the broken pieces. Being the grown-up in a bad situation is so hard.

You're rockin' it.

MOM #1 said...

I may have missed it in a previous post, but what are you studying?